“It is like he’snвЂ™t called or texted in a while. . . . Do I need to get in touch with him? Or will that be irritating? Imagine if he doesnвЂ™t react? Let’s say he does not care? Let’s say that is his means of wanting to keep the connection? What if he is splitting up beside me? Does he think i am too needy? WaitвЂ”am We too needy?”
Does the above train of idea ever transpire in your thoughts? If that’s the case, be confident you aren’t crazy, and also you’re not at all alone. As being a specialist, these monologues are heard by me on a regular basis.
He really does still care when you start to feel this way, your knee-jerk reaction is to seek affirmation from your partner: to call, to text, to see if. Continue reading →