From: Carlos Xuma Monday, 10:14 a.m.

From the time i really could keep in mind, i have been afraid of walking up and speaking with females.

I can not explain where in actuality the heck it originated in, like I missed out on so many opportunities to meet some amazing women because I have never had a woman throw her drink in my face or slap me – but this crazy fear was always there, and because of it, I felt.

My experience frequently went something such as this:

I would personally enter a club, or a restaurant – or anywhere i would satisfy a woman that is attractive then I might see HER.

You realize, this 1 girl that just grabs your attention, and you also get obsessed – just thinking in what it could be choose to keep in touch with her, and possibly hold her in your hands on a romantic date.

Together with 2nd we saw this girl and I also determined that i truly desired to fulfill her, I would personally experience this total “lock-up” during my mind.

I became frozen to your spot, and I also did not understand what to express or do.

We knew I experienced to debate and keep in touch with her to get anything started, but i possibly couldn’t appear to locate method to get it done. We almost felt like some body ended up being keeping me right back actually, like being pinned to a wall surface.

Each time I attempted to simply simply take one step in her way, my brain would secure once more and I also could not go or state any such thing. Continue reading →